- MARRIAGE COUNSELLING SPECIALIST
- CERTIFIED IN EFT FOR COUPLES
- AUTHOR of The Butterfly Blueprint; Revitalize Your Relationship and Keep Your Heart Fluttering Forever
- Over 25 years experience
- Amanda works Mondays to Thursdays, afternoons and evenings (the latest session starts at 6 PM)
Relationships start off easy during the "honeymoon" phase but quickly become complicated as each partner grows and develops, oftentimes in diverging directions. Many couples tell me things changed when they had kids but whatever the reason, you didn't sign up to feel like co-parents, "business" partners, or roommates.
You want a deeper, more trust-filled connection with your partner but trying to talk about it just causes arguments that go nowhere. The more you try to express yourself and get on the same page, the more your partner tries to "fix it" or avoids the issues and shuts down. You're growing apart and you long for the "butterflies" to return.
We all fight about the same things: money, parenting, sex, running the household, in-laws, and addictions but what really matters is how we approach one another. It's natural and normal to protect yourself in the heat of the moment by lashing out or turning away but those stress responses just make you both feel more disconnected over time.
Many people worry about being too much or not (good) enough. You might wonder if you're too dependent or if your partner is too independent. We've all heard codependence isn't the best but what's the difference between that and being interdependent? There are answers to these challenging questions!
Whether you're just starting out, recovering from an affair, or have been with your partner for decades, together, we can create new life, growth, strength, and peace in your couple. You can build more balance within yourself as well as between you and your partner. You can feel more intimate and close!
Couples often tell me how easy it is to talk to me, how comfortable they feel opening up to me. I'm not here to take sides or blame anyone. I'm here on behalf of your relationship, to help you communicate successfully, and build more emotional connection. Are you ready to have a new kind of conversation with your partner, the kind that connects? Send me an email below. I respond right away. Let's meet and explore how you can receive all the fulfillment you desire!
All sessions are 60 minutes in length and the fee is $175 (no GST). Payment is due each session by e-transfer and a receipt is provided the same day. I request full payment for sessions that are missed or when less than 24 hours notice is provided.
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About the Book...
The Butterfly Blueprint is veteran couple's counsellor Amanda Green's prescription for effective interdependence in one's marriage or long-term relationship. Much like a butterfly needs two distinct sets of wings to work together to fly, a relationship takes two people consciously caring for their connection to gracefully navigate life's twists and turns. In the book, you will find a stellar guide—including 8-principles and 24-practices—for building and maintaining true and lasting love.
Amanda lives in Kitchener with her husband, Matthew. They’ve been married for 10 years and together for almost 15. Amanda raised her son—now a paramedic— by herself before meeting Matthew and his daughter. In her spare time, she loves studying spirituality, swimming in northern lakes, and taking their “Jack Rascal” pup, Charlie for walks.
Amanda lives in Kitchener with her husband, Matthew. They’ve been married for 10 years and together for almost 15. Amanda raised her son—now a paramedic— by herself before meeting Matthew and his daughter. In her spare time, she loves studying spirituality, swimming in northern lakes, and taking their “Jack Rascal” pup, Charlie for walks.